My reader Anna asked me about first date outfits... What's appropriate to wear on first dates? First impression is critical. There's a saying, "You never get a second chance to make a first impression."
Let me tell you about my first date with my husband. It was anything but glamorous. He called me two hours prior to ask me if i had any plans that evening. I said no, and he asked if we can have a dinner. Despite the fact that I just had a huge dinner, I said "Sure, let's do it!"The task was to look somewhat presentable to this man I had the hots for. As I stood in front of my closet to choose a decent outfit for the evening, I was telling myself "I have nothing to wear!!!"
It was a cold February evening after 8PM. I wore a denim mini skirt, hot pink hoodie, windbreaker with knee-length boots. Yep, nothing fancy or fashionable. (Did I mention I carried a green tote bag?) We ate at this falafel cafe, and walked for hours afterwards. It was freezing! Overall, our first date went very well, and it was the beginning of our romance. To this day, he says I looked very cute that evening :)
What I learned from this date? Wear something comfortable... outfit you can move around easily and walk around without feeling out of place. Of course, impressing your date is highly important, so pick something that complements your body type. Don't show too much skin. Ha! Leave something for the imagination, girls! That being said, please don't be a nun either. Never wear new shoes on a first date! In fact, never wear new clothes on a first date. If you're wearing heels, be sure to wear the ones you're comfortable.
At the end of the day, if he really likes you*, what you wore won't play a big role in deciding whether he wants to see you again or not. My husband liked my personality way more than my outfit (obviously!)
Lastly, this is what I would wear if I was going on a date tonight. Over size tank with jeans. What's not pictured here is a little black jacket I would wear on top...
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